Living happily ever after
Recently I was incredibly fortunate to fall in love. A brief affair but love so deep that it did not hurt at all.
Being the eternal scholar that I am it taught me a lot. Ofcourse it takes a long time to truly love someone and not your mental image of them. But there are so many different types of love. The attachment a mother has for her child. Friendship. The playfulness between owner and puppy. This list is a long one!
The sort of love I experienced was what he stirred up in Me. Hope in others, humbleness within myself, passion and the encouragement to continue to be a dreamer of sorts and a seeker of more. What else could a girl ask for?
The lucky man has since moved back home to a far-away land after graduating from university. I couldn't bring myself to say good-bye and conveniently was not in town for that farewell visit. But later I wrote to him to say, from when we first met, I had known he would be leaving so I had no expectations but thanked him for what he had 'given' me. He replied lovingly; grateful that neither of us were trying to fit this relationship 'into a box'. Love is true freedom, freedom is true love.
I am a better person thanks to this guy being true to himself.
Being the eternal scholar that I am it taught me a lot. Ofcourse it takes a long time to truly love someone and not your mental image of them. But there are so many different types of love. The attachment a mother has for her child. Friendship. The playfulness between owner and puppy. This list is a long one!
The sort of love I experienced was what he stirred up in Me. Hope in others, humbleness within myself, passion and the encouragement to continue to be a dreamer of sorts and a seeker of more. What else could a girl ask for?
The lucky man has since moved back home to a far-away land after graduating from university. I couldn't bring myself to say good-bye and conveniently was not in town for that farewell visit. But later I wrote to him to say, from when we first met, I had known he would be leaving so I had no expectations but thanked him for what he had 'given' me. He replied lovingly; grateful that neither of us were trying to fit this relationship 'into a box'. Love is true freedom, freedom is true love.
I am a better person thanks to this guy being true to himself.


2 Comments:
awesome blogs shirlz
the zim documentary was awesome. I'm sorry to hear the guy you fell in love with left
the dude abides
Thanks Dude! Please don't feel sorry, be happy for me. I hope love romance will soon be in the air for you ;-)
See ya soon
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